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Homosexuality Part 3
Written by Deacon Ralph   
Monday, 14 June 2010

Segment #3

This is the third installment of a three part series. The first installment sought to define the issue within the context of scripture and point out that the act of homosexuality has always been around and defined as unnatural and immoral. I believe that there is no scriptural evidence that could define this behavior as acceptable in the eyes of God. To attempt to do so would be an attempt to twist the meaning and understanding of truth, both biblically and within the natural law.

In my second installment, I laid the foundation for the third by discussing the role of the demonic real within the life of Humanity. By the responses to that segment, I believe that many could not see the connection. They did appear to be separate discussions but that of space created the need to create “individual steps” in this discussion. However, both steps were needed to conclude with this installment, and we will connect the dots so that seen as a whole you can visualize the progression. It is precisely because many can’t see the connection between the activities of demons within the homosexual lifestyle behavior, that it makes even more sense. Their first line of defense is anonymity.

With this being said, let me begin to combine both segments so that you may see what is really going on. It all must be viewed in the Light of God. Once you place the discussion with God in the picture, you begin to see all the worldly deceptions and rationalizations. The role of the demonic realm, since Adam and Eve have been to entice us to enact our free will to go contrary to the will of God. Thus, they tempt us to reject God, His rules, and His love. They can’t force us but they can deceive us to do so.

Putting God Firmly in the Center of the Discussion

“In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.”( Genesis 1:1) This is a premise we believe as a basic tenant of Christianity. Along with these are a few others, namely, God is Omniscient, Omnipotent, and Omnipresent. If these are truly fundamental elements of our belief system, then we must take that belief and apply the logic that naturally progresses from that. God does not create mistakes! In fact, the demonic realm, understanding truth far better than we, know that God created us to Live Right or Righteously. We were created for the Beatific Vision and or to live with God in Heaven. We were created to share the divine life.

It is important to note here that Catholic doctrine does not embrace the Calvinist view of total depravity of Man’s fallen nature. We don’t believe that because of Man’s original sin, our nature is now totally depraved, just wounded. (CCC 1714) Thus, we believe that while our nature is fallen and bent away from God, our creation is good!

To declare that God created someone with a desire for the same nature would say that God created someone incapable of fulfilling his role as Man and or Woman. I understand that there are many people hold this belief, and I am not calling you liars. Rather, I am saying that you have been lied to. Let me give you just one example among many.

While I was speaking at Franciscan University Youth Conference, I just finished presenting a workshop on over coming addictions with God. A teen (14) came up to me and shamefully shared that he was a Homosexual. I asked him his age and his reasons why he believed he was so. He shared that he has experienced some emotions of attractions to people of the same gender and heard that from school and other sources that if you have those feelings, you must be gay.

As I asked a few more questions and listened to his responses, saw the internal struggle and confusion because he knew God and could understand why God would make him that way. Holding to the premise of God’s light and truth, I challenged what he believed not him! I said, I am not here to tell you that you really didn’t feel that. However, I can tell you that I don’t believe that what you felt leads to the right conclusion.

"John (not his real name), you are just entering your adolescence and there are a couple of other things you must know. First of all, your hormones are going crazy and you transition from childhood, through adolescence, and into manhood. It is not uncommon at all for you to have some attractions toward other guys during this hormonally crazy period. I had them when I was your age, and I’m happily married for 19 years. Guys don’t talk about those feeling because of the shame factor. 'I don’t want other guys thinking I’m gay.'”

The other real important point for you to understand is that there is a strong movement of sin within our country, and they are doing all they can to get us to believe lies. For example, a popular phrase is one you heard at School. “If you feel that way, it must mean you are gay.” For centuries since Sodom and Gomorrah, the demons of homosexuality have been trying to make this behavior “acceptable” and mainstream. Just because a bunch of people are doing it, doesn’t make it right.

After having said this, the young man responded with “you mean I am not gay?” I responded with a resounding “NO”! His entire countenance changes, a strong sense of relief came over him, and he walked away in the freedom of the Lord.

That incident was a relatively easy case because there were only lies to dispel. I am well aware that there are harder cases that must be confronted with the light of God's truth. These cases have the power of “experiential truth” supporting the lies woven into their interpretations of events. Two critical areas where the demonic seem to have great success in sowing lies and having individuals give up their true identity and inheritances are when traumas occur.

The first and less obvious is when a child is cursed by their own parents. You may not know this but a parent can curse their kids by what they do or do not do. The things said and done to these little ones while under their “protection,” can cause great damage and confusion that are easily twisted by the demonic realm to confuse one into believing they are gay. How?

The number one reason a person will enter the homosexual lifestyle is to look for Love. How does that fit with the Scripture that declares the God is Love? (I John 4:8)When a little one is denied that love or they believe that they are denied that love, they spend the rest of their lives looking for it. The greater the degree of trauma committed on a little child, the greater the confusion. Especially when the little one, out of shame and self defense, has no one to help them define what happened. They are an easy target for the subtle suggestion of the evil one. These suggestions are accepted as truth, and then they begin to live life wrongly and the pain that comes from that only adds to their confusion and belief that they are all the more unlovable.

This leads us to the second way in which this confusion is sown into the belief system. Sexual abuse is rampant in our society. The demonic realm feeds on our children while our adults digest ample amounts of elicit sexual encounters. We wonder why this activity is so bad, because our adults are busy watching sexual activity and have bought into Hollywood’s lie that one can be mature enough to handle it. The last time I checked, we couldn't handle sin, that is why Jesus had to die.

What about those who have elements of the opposite sex that would lend one to believe that they must be gay? Again, I want to take you back to childhood when those sensitive little boys and athletic little girls are often being raised to ignore their uniqueness rather learning about the fullness of God's blessing within them… What are the messages they are receiving from home, from their school mates who, out of their own self defense, thrive on those who are different. They pick on them and reject them all as a means of making themselves more acceptable. All the while, these little ones have to make some sense of it. So they gravitate to others who are outcast or are like themselves.

Look at our world today, how difficult do you think it is for the devil to bring together sexually confused individuals who have been rejected by “normal society.” They look forward to receiving love from “expected” sources but brings them rejection and pain. W not go to someone who will love and accept them for who they have come to believe themselves to be?

We don’t want to get so far into the discussion that we lose sight of God. We see from the biblical record that the farther away from God man gets, the less they understand themselves. Why did light come into the world (Jesus – John 1:1-5), if the world could see just fine? Alternatively, could it be, that we have come to believe that we see fine but in reality, we have been deceived so much that we needed Help! Thus we have the incarnation of Jesus Christ. He took the form of man to model for us what Humanity should look and behave like. (CCC 459)

When you put God back into the equation of life on earth, you come to see very clearly just how confused we are. Anyone who now walks in the life and power of the Holy Spirit, who has been through the fire of a trauma and healed by God, can tell you how real the demonic influence on humans really is. They can give testimony to the deceptive work and the need to hold true to the deposit of faith left to us by Jesus.

We are foolish if we believe that we can be righteous by ourselves. (Rom. 3:23) Why, because we are not alone. Satan is prowling like roaring Lion, looking for someone to devour.” (I Peter 5:8)

I know I didn’t cover all the areas needed, but I would guide those who struggle with this issue to use all at your disposal to learn God’s truth about your life. Reconcile with God and ask the Holy Spirit for help. I suggest you do an emotion inventory of your past and look at the painful and or fearful areas of your past and ask God to bring you to the truth of those incidents and beliefs. In those you will find lies you might believe to be true. If you want to find the demonic corruption of your life, follow the fear. Draw close to the Lord!!! He is right and true, we will only heal in the Truth.

God’s Love and Peace, drp

Comments
  • Jeff
    A great conclusion Deacon! thank you for linking the 2 previous together and solidifying them and your point in this
    last segment! I can say that many people will benefit from this through a challenge to their own life, or by relating
    this to someone who trusts enough to bring it up like the young person at the conference you spoke at!

    God's love and
    Peace!
    Jeff
  • Dan  - Attraction to manhood
    I heard Christopher West say once that there's a reason why young boys put up posters of their favorite athletes. It is
    because they see them as true men because of their physical skills. Because they see them as true men, they want to be
    like them or "Be like Mike". That taken to the extreme can lead them to believe they are homosexual. I certainly
    don't want to misunderstand West or take him out of context but I think that ties in with your point about same sex
    attraction as adolescents.
  • lou  - Incomplete.
    This series had some theological and scriptural holes in it. It failed to prove any connexion between demonic activity
    and homosexuality. Abuse of sexuality of course, but to link it with anything homosexual was a real stretch. Id also
    like to know why this deacon doesn't wear the collar, he looks like a protestant.
  • tonydi2  - Walk in my shoes awhile.........
    I knew I was different when I was six. No sexual feelings but I knew I liked the same sex. Can you explain how I come
    from a family of 5 siblings with the same abusive alcholic father and I was the only one who has same sex attraction? I
    grew up with guys who made fun of me because I used to help my Mother hang clothes on the line and clean the house.I am
    not at all effeminate. I was in the army and loved it.I was engaged to be married but broke it off because I knew what I
    felt inside and it wasn't for a women. It's not a choice. Who on earth would want to live and feel like this.? Guilty
    all the time. I love the Catholic Church. I go to Mass and adoration. This is a condition,not demonic.I know most of the
    guys on here are heterosexual and I hope you guys don't verbally attack me. I would have loved to have a family. Do you
    know how I feel when I see my brothers kids hug and kiss him? How I wish I would have had that. I am struggling to live
    a chaste life style. BUT, Its NOT EASY. I am so lonely for companionship. I do have lots of friends. But I am not
    allowed to have a loving relationship with a man. So I have to spend my life living alone. I go to confession every week
    because I'm a sinner. How come the whole church get up to receive Communion and if I didn't go to confession I'm the
    only one sitting in the pew.? I know, judge not, but am I the only sinner in church? Sorry I went on too long but I
    have all this bottled up inside. Please guys, pray for me. PLEASE!!!
  • Brian  - RE: Walk in my shoes awhile....
    Tony, thanks for sharing your struggles and for being so open! I totally sympathize with your post (not in the sense
    that I have same sex attraction, but just an empathy with the things I struggle with). My heart goes out to you brother!
    Just know that you are NOT the only sinner in the Church. This website should be a testament to that. We live in a
    generation and culture of really messed up sexuality, so don't feel like you're the only one with an issue. God sees the
    fact that you are fighting the good fight when everyone else would tell you to embrace it and be proud of it. We all
    have a cross to carry. I heard a quote from Pope JPII recently that may be encouraging: "Don't let your suffering go
    to waste." I will keep you in my prayers, please do the same for me!
  • Henry  - ´Bless you Tony.
    Tony, thanks for your vulnerability and your openess. I will most certainly pray for you. Are there any good Catholic
    sites that help those sturggling with same sex attraction
  • Henry
    Let me get this straight. You`ve seen one picture of the Decaon and you`re questioning his orthodoxy based on the fact
    that he wasn`t wearing a collar that day. What`s wrong with looking Protestant...
  • Matt Fradd
    I second that Henry.
  • tonydi2
    Thanks to all you guys for prayers. I really appreciate that. I will pray for you also. There is a group called
    "Courage" for guys with same sex attraction. Buts its a little too far from where I live. God Bless all of you.
  • Mrs. Rene O'Riordan  - re Tony
    I grew up in the fifties. In retrospect now I realize I was very different from other little girls, I loved playing cow
    boys and indians, climbing trees, robbing orchards, my best friends were always boys and I could take any of them on in
    a fist fight!! I didn't like dolls and certainly hated pink!! In my teens I was a very competitive tennis and badminton
    player and prefered to take on guys as they could put up some kind of a challenge to me, girls were just too incipite
    and never really put their whole heart into winning. Now my point is this, if I had lived at a time when homosexuality
    was being promoted I would have been led to believe I was a lesbian, but no such suggestion was ever made to me or to my
    peers, such a thought never crossed any of our minds. I grew into a young woman who fell in love with a young man we
    married and have four great kids; all adults now. Yep I realize now I was a tad different but wasn't I lucky to have
    lived in an age that was not as messed up sexually as today is. I think my story is relevant in this debate.

    Blessings to all and especially blessings and peace to those who struggle to be chaste, it's a beautiful virtue, a prize
    worth fighting for, and hey who ever won a prize for sitting on the sidelines and not getting in to the game and
    fighting to win. - Rene
  • Tony  - Thank you Rene for you input but...............
    I knew when I was 6yrs old I was different. I used to watch the circus on tv and looking at the men on the Trapeze in
    tights made me feel good inside. I didn't have sexual feelings but I felt good looking at that. In 1st grade when I was
    7yrs old I hung with one of my classmates.We were buddies. I enjoyed being with him. I used to dream about him. Again
    not sexual but in my dream I felt good just because he was there.I dated girls but inside I wanted to be with a man.I
    was engaged but never had sexual feelings for her. I did it for society.It was the thing to do.I broke off the
    engagement because It wasn't fair to her.It took me so long to get rid of this guilt of being me.ITS NOT A CHOICE. Do
    you know how much I prayed that God would make me straight? How when I was a teen I wished I wasn't born? God didn't
    change me. I'm still me, I still have same sex attraction.Don't you think it bothers me to see my brother( who has 5
    children) that I could never have a family? My favorite psalm is 139. I am wonderfully, fearfully made. God knew me
    even before I was in my mothers womb. And I don't think homosexuality is being PROMOTED as you say. I am NOT for gay
    marriage. I beleive its between a man and a woman. I am a catholic christian and love my faith. Sorry I went on so long.
    Pray for me.
  • Dcn. Ralph  - Response to Tonydi2 and all
    I too want to thank you for your comments and vulnerability. The reason why I took this direction for this series was
    to provoke the question, is it possible to be deceived, by the demonic realm, to reject my true identity. This
    conversation could easily go into any lifestyle. Tony, you asked a very specific question that I want to respond to.


    Can you explain how I come from a family of 5 siblings with the same abusive alcholic father and I was the only one
    who has same sex attraction?

    In my discussion, I wanted people to evaluate where they could be vulnerable to the
    attacks of the evil realm. Where could they sow seeds of lies that lead to confusion. Their goal is to destroy you and
    they will do so by getting you to buy into lies that get people to reject God. The source of All Love!

    In your
    question, you mentioned an abusive alcoholic Father. I would see this as pivital. Why? Because every heart longs for
    the Blessing of the Heavenly Father! Humanity wants all the perks of a free will but not the responsibility of it.
    The truth is that men have lost the understanding of their role. They were created for FATHERHOOD. Whether they have a
    biological family or they are Priests or single adult men, they are all called to protect, sacrifice, and bless. When
    they have lost their way, they no longer pass on the Heavenly Father's Blessing.

    Men become broken and
    dysfunctional and have children but never matured into the spiritual Fatherhood where they protect and bless their
    children. Therefore, the lea...
  • Dcn. Ralph  - Crazy Schedule but I will be back
    I just want to thank you all for the discussion. It is one that needs to be had. My schedule has been crazy this
    summer and I have not had time to check in. I do want to respond more. I am going on vacation and will be able to
    engage more the last half of August. Until then, know I will be praying for you. Let us all begin to train ourselves
    to seek and live the truth of Jesus Christ - The Word made Flesh.

    Peace,
    drp
  • Anonymous  - Dcn. Ralph Returns
    Sorry for the cut off text, I forgot the limit.

    Continuing on with the thought. Tony, I appreciate theefort you
    have made and i can hear in your words a high level of frustration. You mention of asking God many times to make you
    straight is commendable but I would encourage you to ask the Holy Spirit a different question. Go find that feeling of
    attraction towards other men and hold onto it. Once you have it, ask "Lord take me to the origin of this emotion (
    Look for a memory container where you felt this emotion the for first time) and reveal to me the lies with the belief I
    have in that moment.

    To do this requires trust in God and He just may take you to a place where you have spent most
    of your life avoiding. If not then it just may be a surprise where He leads you. It doesn't come easy but as you
    practice, our Lord will reveal the truth and the source of that desire.

    In Your note to Rene, you said you had no
    choice. Temptations and feelings come from all over the place. While the feeling may have just shown up, the choice to
    embrace it was yours. The choice to define the reason for having that feeling was yours. It is in that choice that we
    can embrace lies that we believe to be true.

    God Bless
  • Dcn. Ralph  - Oops
    Sorry the previous message is mine. I need some sleep. :o)
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